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Couple's Conflict

Learn how to effectively communicate and resolve conflicts in a fair and safe way, and use conflicts as an opportunity for self-discovery and growth within your relationship with this guide for couples.

From Disconnection to Discovery

2 Handouts
33:42 Minutes
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This guide is for anyone who is struggling to manage conflict in their intimate relationship.

If you are struggling with a pattern of conflict with your partner, it might be that neither of you ever learned cooperative conflict skills. This guide has many tips and insights to ease your level of tension and transform your conflict moments into opportunities for deeper attachment and understanding.

Couple's Conflict

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Eli Harwood
A licensed therapist, author, and educator who has more than 16 years of experience helping people process their early traumas and develop secure attachment relationships with their children and partners.
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