How to Deal with Your ____ So Your Kids Don’t Have To
Practical, no-nonsense guidance for parents and parents-to-be
Your kids can feel what you don’t heal. This is your roadmap to break the cycle, shed your emotional baggage, and raise kids who feel safe, seen, and secure.
Tools to heal yourself—so your children don’t have to carry your pain
Strategies to effectively handle the challenging emotions all parents feel
Confidence to break damaging relational and emotional habits you no longer need in your life
"Eli isn’t just an expert — she’s your ally. She’s lived this work and she’s cheering you on."
Mother Daughter Journal
Uniquely Us
Ten minutes a week. A lifetime of inside jokes, trust, and memories. Create a connection ritual your daughter will remember.
Moms and daughters (ages 8+) who want to build connection rituals
Makes deeper connection feel more natural and predictable
Gives mothers and daughters a keepsake full of love and memories
"Eli Harwood brings infectious-fun energy, vulnerability, and fresh perspectives without shaming or blaming"
Raising Securely Attached Kids
It’s never too late to strengthen your bond.
Parenting isn’t about perfection — it’s about connection. This book gives you the tools, science, and scripts that actually last a lifetime.
The research on what makes kids feel safe.
How connection—not control—shapes resilience.
Real strategies you’ll actually remember under pressure.
"“If you only read one parenting book ever again-let it be this one. I think this book could save the world and I wish I could afford to buy everyone I know a copy. The way she uses language to omit any blame or shame while teaching so clearly and succinctly feels healing in and of itself. While reading this I felt like I was having a conversation with a friend.”"
Guided Workbook
Securely Attached
It’s never too late to change how you love. This workbook gives you the tools to understand your patterns, heal your story, and build the secure, fulfilling relationships you deserve.
Adults looking to cultivate closer relationships with their friends and partners
Anyone who wants to understand how attachment has affected their life
A resource to help you process and change your attachment patterns
"This book is a terrific, warm, constantly-encouraging bundle of sunshine wrapped in 161 pages! "
