So many grownups have to do work to grow down into their less responsible, more free self after spending their childhoods riddled with anxiety and focus on the needs of their caregivers.
The narrative they are often saddled with is that they "were always like that" or "were so grown up" from a young age.
Kids only grow up fast if there is no option to take their time enjoying the process.
This video offers insightful perspective and tools for healing from inherited attachment wounds, acknowledging the realities of our caregivers' patterns while breaking the cycle for future generations
Avoid focusing too much on fairness when teaching kids, as it can create a belief that good behavior is always rewarded and bad behavior is always punished, leading to the dangerous belief that they deserve any trauma they experience, instead use relational motivation to guide them towards making good choices.
This inspiring video is a reminder to keep pushing forward and doing your best, no matter the obstacles you face.