So many grownups have to do work to grow down into their less responsible, more free self after spending their childhoods riddled with anxiety and focus on the needs of their caregivers.
The narrative they are often saddled with is that they "were always like that" or "were so grown up" from a young age.
Kids only grow up fast if there is no option to take their time enjoying the process.
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In this video, we learn how attachment experiences can affect the way we process trauma, with empathy and compassion being key to healing and preventing feelings of guilt, blame and shame that can linger long after an event has ended.
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In this powerful video, learn how to differentiate between empathy and pity, and why cultivating empathy is essential for healing broken attachment relationships from childhood.
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Avoid focusing too much on fairness when teaching kids, as it can create a belief that good behavior is always rewarded and bad behavior is always punished, leading to the dangerous belief that they deserve any trauma they experience, instead use relational motivation to guide them towards making good choices.
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