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Making changes in your parenting can make a huge huge difference in the lives of your children.
1. Be kind to yourself, you don't know what you don't know.
2. Apologize and take ownership over your past patterns.
3. Make tactical plans to ensure you make meaningful long lasting transformation. ' width='630' height='1121' frameborder='0' allowfullscreen referrerpolicy='no-referrer-when-downgrade' title='Video Player'></iframe>
The myth that comforting your child will "spoil" them is not only emotionally harmful but also creates an altered brain state that leads to higher levels of stress and mental illness in adulthood, giving them compassion and comfort will only help them develop a healthier brain function.
A message to all fathers: keep going with your efforts to connect with your children because they desperately need to see what a healthy, connected, caring male looks like, and it will create a secure attachment that fosters resilience.
Discover which of the 4 attachment styles, represented by different animals, resonates with you the most when dealing with emotional distress in this thought-provoking video.