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Three Things Every Kid Needs to Know About Saying NO

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Hearing our children sat no to us can be triggering, but man o man is it important for them to practice.

There are so many scenarios in life that need an empowered and confident NO response.

Our job as attachment figures is to help our kids fine tune that skill and learn how to use it effectively.

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