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How to Give an Ultimatum

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How you say what you say matters big when delivering a message as serious as an ultimatum. Speak the truth and speak it with as much kindness as you can.

If they aren't able or willing to respect your boundary then at least you know you did it with love and can feel good about the way you asked for care.

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