1.

Using Playfulness as a Motivation Strategy

No items found.

When we are unable to reach our children through gentle and respectful requests (aka we ask nicely 16 times for something and it isn't happening), there is a temptation to pivot to harshness, threats, and punishments to motivate them.

Unfortunately, when we go that route, our behavior adds tension and fear into the learning process and limits the amount of our children's brains that are online.

Instead of turning the volume up on fear and punishment,  turn the volume up on playfulness.

When we are playful we engage our child's whole brain. It makes learning easier and deeper. Plus you have more fun too.

(Costumes not required)

!7maZdGQE

Join the Attachment Nerd Herd

Complete access for $29

Similar to what you just watched

The Science of Silliness
00:14

Discover the power of playfulness and how it can positively impact your brain and relationships, unlocking your potential to thrive - watch now!

View
When One of Your Kids is Hurtful to a Sibling
01:19

This video offers guidance on how parents can help their kids learn about conflict resolution through setting boundaries and offering compassion towards both parties, emphasizing the importance of safety and boundaries, effective communication, and moving to repair in conflict situations.

View
How to Help Someone Navigate Shame Effectively
01:20

In this video, you'll learn the shAmeBC's for helping someone you love navigate the painful emotional state of shame by acknowledging their feelings, buffering them with calmness and presence, and connecting with them in an authentic human way to help them feel worthy and not alone.

View