when you have a secure attachment style you show love and affection freely, you ask for emotional support from your attachment figures and you feel soothed by empathetic responses.
This video is about limbic resonance, which is when your feeling brain is lined up with someone else's feeling brain, and you feel connected.
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In this video, relationship expert explains how the instinct to push away when wanting to be close is called "protest" behavior in attachment research, but in couples counseling, it is often referred to as sabotage, and shares the most effective way to bring your partner close is to express your desire for connection.
Model for them your own consent process, and help them deeply understand the nuance of desire
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