Finding secure love can feel like an impossible task, especially if you grew up in an insecure home.
The path to finding and keeping secure love is about having been loved well, either growing up, or through a healing process.
When we learn to work through our past attachments and understand what we learned about love growing up, we are freed to choose partners that are truly loving and different than the patterns we used to get stuck in.
Learn how to break the cycle of generational trauma and cultivate a secure attachment relationship between you and your child by doing the healing work that you can, trusting the next generation to keep it going.
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In this video, you'll learn that a securely attached young child expresses their distress, seeks proximity to their caregiver, and calms quickly, and that this pattern of express-seek-soothe can be seen throughout our lifespan, with teens seeking friends, adults seeking romantic partners or close friends, but always involving the freedom to have an emotional need, be close, and receive comfort at every stage of life.
A message to all fathers: keep going with your efforts to connect with your children because they desperately need to see what a healthy, connected, caring male looks like, and it will create a secure attachment that fosters resilience.
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